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Celebrating the life of

Lucy Distefano Haviland

December 14, 1938 - August 22, 2024

Lucy Distefano Haviland

Lucy Distefano Haviland, age 85, entered eternal rest surrounded by family on August 22,2024 after an extended illness. Lucy was born in Savannah on December 14, 1938 to John and Josephine Distefano. Lucy, as a resident of St. Mary's School for Girls, attended Blessed Sacrament School, and in 1957 graduated from St. Vincent's Academy.

In 1963, she wed Theodore Frances  “Ted” Haviland at St John the Baptist Cathedral.  They were soon blessed with two sons, Theodore Frances III “Teddy”, and John Michael and in 1971 the family relocated to Brunswick, Ga where they welcomed a third son Christopher Anthony.  Lucy was a communicant of St. Frances Xavier Catholic Church and spent many hours volunteering at the Parish school.  She was a member of the Knights of Columbus Auxiliary and served as both Cub Scout and Boy Scout leader.  Lucy was a beloved fixture at all of her son’s sporting events.  The family returned to Savannah in 1979 where she was actively involved in the Benedictine Military school PTO and the Athletic Association, where she was named “Man of the Year”.  Lucy was employed as the school secretary for St. Vincent’s Academy and later worked in the medical records department for Doctors Costrini, Meadows, and Smith.

After retirement, Ted and Lucy moved to Aiken, SC to be near her children.  Lucy was a communicant of St. Mary’s Help of Christians Parish in Aiken.

Lucy is preceded in death by her parents, as well as a sister Frances DeWitt.  She is survived by her husband Theodore Frances Haviland (Ted); sons Theodore Frances Haviland III , John Michael Haviland (Melanie), Christopher Anthony Haviland (Terri); sisters Josephne D. Russo, Mary D. Hayes (James), Patricia C. Hicks (Bob) , brother Timothy Crosby (Cindi) and two grandsons Brendan Michael Haviland and Weston Samuel Haviland, as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

Rosary service will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Sunday, August 25, 2024 at Fox & Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel. Visitation will follow from 5:30 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. in the chapel of the funeral home. 

Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, August 26, 2024 at Cathedral Basilicia of St. John the Baptist Church. Interment will follow in the The Holy Cross Section of Catholic Cemetery.

Remembrances:  Benedictine Athletic Association or St. Vincent's Academy 

 

 

 

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GUEST BOOK

She was a wonderful person and I will sorely miss her. I love Savannah and she was one of the main reasons. I will always think very fondly of her.

- Tom Nebbia, Savannah, GA

We're so sorry to hear of your loss. What a remarkable woman. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

- Denise and Brett Huber, Simpsonville , SC

With my deepest sympathy, prayers and love as you mourn the loss of a beautiful and amazing woman. Rest in Peace Lucy.

- Jane Patricia Harte , Savannah , Georgia

Mike, Our deepest sympathies for you and your family during this difficult time! Your Mom was always so kind and friendly to me ! Take special care of Mr Ted ! Love you pal !

- Rock Reed, Sav, GA

Thoughts and prayers to you and yours for your loss. With deepest sympathy, she was a special lady.

- Kitchens/saunders, TYBEE island,, GA

My thoughts, prayers and love are with the family at this time. Miss Lucy was the most amazing woman and so sweet and fun. My parents Roy and Patty Gillikin were so very fond of her and Ted and the entire Haviland family. I have the fondest memories of her at BC and all the functions in our Savannah lives from since I was a young child. Savannah family and friend relationships run deep and Miss Lucy was a driving force for many of them. I will cherish the memories with her and my parents forever and smile thinking of them fondly. I take comfort in the thought they are together laughing it up and having a good time together again. God bless!

- DENNIS GILLIKIN, Atlanta, Georgia

Ted and Family...Just wanted to let you know that Joan and I are very saddened to read about Lucy. Although we haven't seen y'all very much in recent years please know we've always felt a very close friendship toward the both of you. I suppose Lucy is very busy right now yuckin' it up with Patty , Judy , Trica , Molly , Francis ,Harriet , and Roy,Butch,Tommy, The Chief, and Poopsie !! Regretably Joan and I will be unable to attend Lucy's funeral but we will be remembering her in our prayers at that time and very often thereafter. And finally to answer your enduring question..."no sir, I ain't got no bitch and... neither do you !! We've both had a darn good deal for 80+years. j and j mahany

- Joan and Joe mahany, LEXINGTON, GA

Ted and family, I am so saddened to hear of Lucy’s passing. Meeting her so many years ago at St. Vincent’s was the beginning of many fun times with the St. Patrick’s gang. She always included Gene and I in your plans to celebrate! We were fortunate to have known all the Haviland family.

- Beverly Fox, Savannah , Ga.

Thoughts and prayers to you and yours for your loss. With deepest sympathy, she was a special lady

- Brian Dougherty, Elk River, MN

Teddy and Family, I am so sorry I missed Lucie's services, I was out of town for the weekend and did not see the Obit. until this morning. You and Locy are two of my favorite people. Iam really upset about this, I will call you soon. Tom

- Tom Hansen, Sr., SAVANNAH GA., Georgia

Ted & Family……. So sorry to hear of Lucy’s passing. She was truly a “servant” of people. Always helping and doing for others especially her family! My love and prayers to all of the family. What a loss for everyone! She will be missed!

- Sandy McGlohon, Savannah, Ga

To all Lucy’s family, I’ve known Lucy for many years. She was such a dear, sweet, kind and caring person. Although we had lost touch it makes me sad to know she’s gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord,and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace.

- Carolyn Yokum Beebe, Savannah, GA

Keith and I extend our sincere sympathies to the family. Lucy was an amazing mother and a great neighbor to my parents. Prayers for all of your beautiful memories, family and friends to bring you comfort. God will provide you with peace. Renee’

- Renee’ Arsenault Grotheer, St Augustine , FL

Sympathy and prayers for all the family of Lucy. May she rest in eternal peace!

- Ann Harte, Savannah, Georgia

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Lucy. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family.

- Mary Anne Butler, Tybee Island, GA

We were so sorry to hear of Lucy’s passing. Heaven has gained another angel. Our prayers are for comfort and peace for the family.

- Steve and Kathy Salter, Tybee Island, GA

Prayers to Mr. Haviland and all The Haviland Family. She was wonderful Sweet women.

- Kevin Sheehan, Savannah, Georgia

Dear Teddy, I just had a chance to sit down at my computer and so sorry to read of Lucy's passing. As you know Neal died on August 30th and I have been pretty overwhelmed. I appreciate the donation you made in Neal's memory and know that would mean a lot to Neal. Please relay my prayers and love to the family. Ruth M.

- Ruth Markowitz, Savannah, GA

Services under the direction of:

Fox & Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel
912-352-7200


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